We Will Miss You Michael Jackson, May You Rest In Paradise!

Michael Jackson ~ You WILL Be MISSED!

Hey all my Followers;

It has truly been a sad sobering week since the passing of Michael Jackson June 25, 2009. If you are my age then you no dout have grown up on Michael!

I can honestly say that in Life their is but a few moments, a few events when we the world come together and morn. An it is at that time, that very moment when we as humans realize what is important in life and what is not. We realize how precious life truly is an a humbling feeling comes over us.

I will ALWAYS remember my teens and how Michael Jackson played a larger part in it than my own parent. I will NEVER forget the time I told my mother how I was going to spend the night at the Richfield Coliseum because I wanted to get front row tickets an I didn't care if she called the police on me.....LOL AWW TO BE YOUNG AGAIN....LOL
I can't IMAGINE anyone not knowing who Michael Jackson is or who has never heard a Michael Jackson song, But if you are among the 2 people in the world that does not know who he is, then I beg of you to go check out his music an you too will start to Love him if nothing more than for his Music.

Me personally, I love His Music and his soul, the spirit and beauty of the man that could create such music that could ignite the passion in my heart and make me internally feel as no man, women or child, to this day, have made me feel!

I love you Michael Jackson Forever An A Day.

MAY YOU REST IN PARADISE

Please Check Out My YouTube Video That I Attributed To Michael Jackson An All The Memories I have Of Him. You Want Be Sorry. WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/UtopiaD4

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And Keep Following Me On This Blog, To Get More, Keeping It Real Moments!

Take Care, Take Cover, And Always Take Your Time!

Cheating and Lying Men.......WHY?!?!?!?

Hey Fam!
This blog is about MEN! Can someone tell me why they CHEAT/LIE!!!
Look, I have been telling my 15 yr old daughter that while there are millions of GREAT MEN in the world, there are a number of them that cheat and lie there ass off.....WHY?!?!?
My brother has recently come to live with me, AFTER HIS WIFE PUT HIM OUT FOR CHEATING! His wife somehow was able to infiltrate his cell phone records, noticed a number he had been calling repeatedly and called that number.
When she called the number (Which Turned Out To Be The Other Women), my brother was riding in the car with her. His wife asked the other women, "Do You know T....?" And the other women said, "Yes, that is my man". His wife said, "That is my HUSBAND!" The other women turned to my brother and said, "This women on the phone talking about she's your wife, don't tell me your married". My brother goes, "Hang up on the crazy bitch, she is obviously playing because I am not married!" When he got home, he had the nerve to say to his wife, "IT WAS NOT ME"!! As if she does not know her own husbands voice! LOL........MEN!
So he is over my house, sad, wondering how his life turned out like it is now.....DUH!
Cheating and Lying is like a hobby to some men! He says he wants his family back. He begs his wife daily to come home, telling her things like; Baby I love you so much, I promise I am not messing with that women. Somebody playing games with the both of us. Trying to come between us and what we have. Baby I love you and only you and I don't know her, I swear baby!! Then he hangs up and calls the other women and tell her the same thing!!! WHAT THE HELL!!
I must admit that in my life, this kind of behavior from men IS NOT uncommon. I have had men do similar things and for the life of me I just don't know why they CHEAT and LIE so damn much!
Men, it would be so much easier for you, and everyone involved, if you would simply TELL THE DAMN TRUTH!!!

Signs of a Cheating Spouse
Loss of interest in you sexually

They don't say "I love you" as often

They sleep on the couch instead of with you
( It becomes more like they are your roommate instead of your spouse)
Suspicious statements and reactions(They accidentally call you another name)
They cannot look you in the eyes, or somehow seem to act or behavior in a guilty manner.

They are quicker to argue or rage. They have mood and attitude swings.

Special interest in appearance and personal grooming

Unexplained time away

Unusual telephone behavior

Changes in behavior or lifestyle

They go a few days without showering at home but seem to have showered.

Unaccounted Money

THESE ARE JUST A FEW WAYS OF TELLING IF YOUR MAN(OR WOMEN) IS CHEATING, BUT NOT ALL! USE YOUR OWN JUDGEMENT!

Sweet 16 ~ Why Did MTV Make That Show?!?!?!

Hey Fam! Well My daughter is about to turn 16 in June, and I am giving her a semi big Party. Can someone PLEASE tell me why MTV came up with that sweet 16 party show!!! I keep trying to tell my daughter that unlike all the parents and kids you see on that show, WE ARE NOT RICH!!!

It started out with me telling her that I was going to throw her a backyard barbecue party for her 16Th birthday which she can invite about 10 of her closest friends.

It ended up with A Party Theme Of " PARTY LIKE A ROCK STAR" (which she made up). A guest list of 80, A $600 cake, Another $400 LV Purse cake, A live DJ, A Photographer with back drops, A tattoo artist, A nail tech for the girls to decorate there nails, $300 food bill that includes 200 shrimp (her request), 1000 custom M&M's in her party colors (white and teal) that has her pictures on them. Party decorations in the area of $250 which includes plastic martini glasses, so as she says, her friend can party like true rock stars, An all this will be topped off with a Firework Display at the end. I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW THIS HAPPEN!

But I do know, she better be good for the rest of the year...LOL (BUT SERIOUS AS HELL)!!!

I am attaching pictures of the cakes so you all can trip out too! But I do love the cakes.

I will Keep You Updated On The Party Details...Take Care Fam!

Most Realist YouTube Channel!

Hey Everyone, Using this time to tell you guys about my YouTube Channel! "Utopiad4" Yeah I know, you are wondering why such a name. It's the name of my clothing store, Utopia Designs! I am starting an online version of my store. I am totally confused about how to start it, but I think I have the main ideals. My trouble is finding a proper host. I mean I see some NICE sites out there and I just don't know how to begin that part of it! I am going to contact one of the many sites I love and just straight out ask them how they started there online business and who put it together. Yeah, that's what I will do because I really want to sale to the world and not just My area. Although I LOVE my store front type of store.....I want to Blow Up In 2009! BUT DON'T WE ALL!?!?!

I totally got off the point.....visit my YouTube Channel Everyone, You want be sorry!

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